Knowing how someone really feels can be a tricky thing to gauge, but even more so when it comes to romantic
feelings – especially when it comes to men.
Does he truly love and want to be with you, or does he have other intentions? After all, nobody wants to be with someone
who doesn’t want to be with them?
But how can you tell the difference? Maybe this list can give you a better idea of what a man who truly
loves you actually look like.
If you have his heart, he will probably do all of the following:
1 – He Will Treats You With 100% Respect
Respect is one of the biggest requirements of a healthy relationship that most people take for granted.
A guy who loves you will respect you as a person, your choices, your beliefs, and your ideas.
It may not sound super sexy, but it’s necessary for any lasting relationship – and any guy who wants one with you will want to
respect you and have your respect.
Even if he doesn’t always agree with you, he will still try to see things from your perspective and respect your point of view – the
the same way he hopes you’ll do for him.
2 – He Will Really Listen To You
Men are often accused of not being good listeners – whether they forget about your cousin’s birthday this weekend or which scented candle you liked the most at the store the other day.
But small details like these do matter. And a man who cares for you will always listen and remember the little things you mention.
He will do his best to absorb all the details he can because it’s his way of showing how much he values you and what you have to say.
3 – He Will Actually Consider Your Advice
Most men tend to avoid advice given to them – especially if you’re always eager to provide information
and point out their mistakes.
But, once you understand that a man does not want you to solve his problems and that he prefers to figure things out himself
– you give him the independence his ego wants.
When he sees that you support him, believe in him, and have faith in his abilities, that’s when he’ll want your advice.
He will seriously consider your suggestions because he truly values your opinion. He will get past his pride and try things your way.
4 – He Will Fight For You
And fighting for you also means fighting with you sometimes.
This doesn’t mean calling you names or picking a fight for no reason, especially not physical altercations.
You see, fights – or arguments – don’t always mean bad times for the relationship. Occasional disagreements and discussions are a good sign that he’s trying to make things work.
It shows that he really is committed to you, and wants to find solutions for your relationship.
5 – He Will Compromise
A relationship isn’t a business transaction; it shouldn’t be a “what’s in it for me?” situation.
Someone who’s just playing the field and only gets into relationships to get something out of it, won’t ever sacrifice his
self-interest to stay with anyone.
When a man truly loves you, he wants to see you happy – even if it means occasionally putting aside his own interests for the sake of yours.
However, this does not mean that he will become a doormat and let you take advantage
of him – compromise goes both ways.
6 – He Will Gets A Little Jealous
You may find this a bit surprising, but jealousy is among the most human emotions. Everyone gets jealous sometimes, especially when they think they’re about to lose someone they care for.
If a guy shows jealousy, he has strong feelings for you and doesn’t want to lose you.
He’ll try his hardest to always be the closest person to you – and he’ll have no problem interrupting
your conversations with other guys.
Of course, not ALL men will do that – they might not want to come off as controlling or obsessive – but they will still ask questions.
Sometimes, a man might not even realize that he’s doing this, but actions tend to speak louder than words…
7 – He Won’t Care What You Do As Long As You’re Together
Whether you’re just shopping or attending a party on the weekend, he’ll want to be involved.
A man who truly loves you will want to spend as much time with you as possible, not just on date nights.
A meaningful relationship is just as much about the mundane things as it is about the exciting stuff.
8 – He Will Love How You Look, Even On Your ‘Bad Days’
The more time people spend together, the more comfortable they get with each other – and the need to impress and
always be done up simply dissipates.
Of course, this isn’t always the case, but you’ll both eventually feel free to walk around in your pajamas and ratty sweatpants, and he’ll still think you are beautiful no matter what you’re wearing.
For him, it’s not what you wear, the makeup you put on, or how you style your hair – it’s you he loves – your smile, little quirks, and personality.
Also Read: 7 Signs Your Man Doesn’t Love You Anymore
9 – He Will Be Proud Of You
A man who loves you won’t be shy about being proud of you out loud.
Whatever you put your efforts into—your family or your career—you can be sure that your hard work will be noticed.
Your admirable actions and hard work toward your goals will make him proud and happy. Even if you fall short, he’ll still be proud that you tried in the first place.
And if you are both competitive, he won’t feel as crushed about coming in second place.
10 – He’ll Follow Through On Promises
Most people are good at making promises, but not everyone can follow through on them.
Someone who cares about you, though, will always try to follow through on their promises.
That said, a man who loves you wants you to think highly of him – and he knows he can’t get the respect he wants on empty promises.
Going back on his word means breaking the trust – and he cares for you too
much to sabotage your relationship.
If he’s honest and always tries to follow through, it shows how much he values your opinion – and your heart!
11 – He Will Always Make You Feel Safe
Men are naturally protective as a result of biological evolution.
They want to protect the people they love – whether it’s protecting physically or emotionally – but protecting nonetheless.
If a man loves you and cares about you, he’ll always try to make you feel safe, and will never make you question whether he’ll be there for you when you need him.
He will always stand by you and will stand up for you. He will be your teammate and your biggest supporter throughout life.
12 – He’ll Treat Your Family And Friends With Respect
When a man loves you, he will also accept and treat your friends and family with respect. If someone’s important to you, they’ll become important to you by default.
Even if he doesn’t like some of your family members or friends, he’ll keep his mouth shut because he knows that they mean a lot to you.
13 – He Will Include You In His Plans For The Future
Including you in his plans indicates that a guy wants a long-term relationship.
This is not just a date for next week or planning something special for your birthday—I’m talking about making major life decisions with you in mind and even asking for your advice.
Obviously, if you’ve only been together for a few weeks, you don’t qualify to have a say in your partner’s life decisions.
But if you’ve been dating a while, he should consider your input carefully and include you in any plans he makes.
14 – He Will Care About Your Needs
It takes effort from both of you to have a healthy, satisfying relationship, and this is even more true for long-term relationships.
Intimacy can seem like a chore instead of a special time to connect – particularly if one partner has given up on pleasing the other.
Physical intimacy should be enjoyable for both people involved. And if your partner is doing his best to make you happy – and you’re trying to do the same – you’re on the right track.
Sure, after the honeymoon stage, physical time together tends to decline a bit naturally, but at the end of the day, it’s the
quality that counts, not the quantity.
15 – He Will Take Notice Of Little Things That Make You Happy
Sometimes, it’s the little things in life that mean the most.
Maybe he remembered to bring you a cup of your favorite coffee in the morning. Or you’ve snuggled up together to watch your favorite show after a long, crappy day.
Whatever little things bring a bit of joy to your day, if your partner makes sure to notice them and bring them about more often,
it shows how much he loves and cares for you.
Making an effort to perform small acts of kindness like these shows a level of appreciation you would not get in a short-term feeling.
Guys, do you agree with this list? Is there anything else you would add? And ladies, does your man make you feel loved?
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